Being alone is one of the worst feeling, isn't it? Remember the last time you been alone, with no one around you? You don't want to recall that time do you? Your lovely friends, loving mother, strict but your best friend - your father, your stupid sister, your pretend-to-be intelligent brother, the man sweeping streets near your house each morning, whom you never liked, an old man bore you to death by talking about his old times each time you meet him, an old granma always advising you to do this, do that, one of your class mates who always make fun of you in front of everyone, and you feel like knocking him/her down with a hard punch, your pet - a dog or a cute cat whom you loved so much... the list will go on. You meet many new people each day. there are several persons around you everyday, whom you love or hate. But they are part of your life. They make your life what it is. Someone makes you happy, some makes you sad, you love someone, you hate someone, someone is special for you, someone has no importance in your life, but these people are always there. To make your life heaven or hell, whatever it is, but they are there, around you, always. Just think about these people, and take someone out of the list. I bet your life won't be the same as before.
Every single person around you plays a very important part in your life. They have their own importance in your life. Believe it or not, but it is true. When a person is no more a part of your life, your life starts changing. Imagine your world without your parents. Your mother or/and your father leaves you alone one day and they are not coming back. Your mom was very loving. She loved you a lot and you did the same. She always saved you from the anger of your father. Your father, he was strict. He always made restrictions on you. But he loved you. He was the one who taught you walk. Who always made sure you are happy, your demands are fulfilled anyhow. And that's why you loved him. But they are no more the part of your life. Your life won't be the same right? Now there is no one to wake you up in the morning, there is no one who will scold you for doing something wrong. Won't you feel alone? Even if you have your brother, sister, friends, colleagues, everyone around you but they can't take place of your parents right?
Same for other people around you. Think of your friends. They love you a lot and you love them a lot. You meet everyday, hangout with each other every night, you fight a lot but every time you fight, the next day you patch up, and your understanding increases. One day you have a fight over something as usual. You say something what you are not supposed to say. But you didn't mean it. You think you will patch up as usual. But it doesn't happen. Your friends never come back to you. Now think of your life without them. They are no more around you. Alone again, right? Are you going to forget your friends and start making new friends? Will they be able to take place of your old pals? I guess not. You will always miss your old friends, always regret your words. You wish you never said that, but what now!
Think of your younger sister. She is so cute but you find her the ugliest. If you are a girl, you are jealous of her. If you are a boy, you always hate her. Think of your elder brother. He is just like your father. Always tries to put restrictions on you. When your father is not at home, he tries to fill in his shoes and starts behaving like your father. You hate him right? But one day your sister/brother leaves you. They are no longer around you. Now every time you think of your sister or brother, you realize you were wrong. They were not the one to hate so much. But what now. They are no longer around you. You are alone. There is no sister who will make you jealous, no brother who was always like you father, strict but loving. Now you are alone.
Remember that man sweeping streets everyday? Each time you looked at him, you hate him. If you were a girl, you always found him filthy. If you were a boy, you always thought the guy was ugly. The man looked at you very suspiciously. You never liked him. You thought he deserved what he is doing. You always looked at him with anger and hate in your eyes. One day you look on the street, they guy is not there. Another day passes. He's not there. Days keep passing but he never came back. What you will think? Will you think, 'thank god! They guy is no more here. Now you won't have to see his ugly face every morning.' Well I guess yes, but at the same time, you will feel a black space somewhere. Every time you open your window and look at the street, every time you walk on the street, you will remember that guy. You will think, why the guy is not coming? What happened to him? Is he in some kind of problem? Is he dead! (yes you will think this) Even if you never liked that man, you will think of him. Because he was a part of your routine life. Not an active part but a passive one. Even if he has no importance in your life, he will make you think about him.
When any single person leaves from the routine of your life, your routine changes. You can't expect everything to be the same forever right? You can't expect someone to be with you forever. Time changes, people changes. The world around you changes. People come and go. It's the routine. It's he part of life we live. Then why we don't like when someone leaves us? Why we always wish no one leave us. Why we wish our parents are always around us, our brother, sister, friends are always with us? Why we start caring about someone who never played an important part in our life? Why we start loving someone whom we hated for life after he is no longer there? Because, we never want to be alone. We don't like changes. When you are all alone, with no one around you, you are most likely to think about the good times. The time you spent with your parents, friends, colleagues, classmates everyone.
We don't like being alone anywhere, yes anywhere. You always think someone is with you. So you can spend good times together. We are having a good time or a bad time, we want someone to be part of it. Because sharing good time with someone increases the happiness and sharing bad time with someone decreases sadness.
Always remember, if you never want to be alone, then don't leave someone else alone.Always make them feel like that you are always there around them. Never leave someone when they need you the most. You know that or not, but you may be playing an important role in someone's life. Never let them down. Love the people around you as you love yourself. Behave with people the way you want them to behave with you. Life will never be the same. If you want life to be the same in best possible way, you need someone around you. You can't get over your problems alone. Share happiness with everyone. Be part of someone's problem. You will always need them.
At last, why am I writing this post? Well, I just remembered my past, the people came and gone in my life, who made my life as it is at the moment - my friends, with whom I am never so open, my parents whom I never listen, and many other people who were around me, were part of my life, active or passive, but they changed me a lot, my teachers, whom I always hated for not teaching me the way the should etc. At some stages of my life, I have been alone and there is so much to write, but I think it's enough written already. This post is dedicated to everyone who have been part of my life, in present, or in past. Thank you all.
If you think this post has any impact on you, your life, leave a comment. Share your similar experience. Everyone likes encouragements, including me. Please do so.
Being alone is the worst feeling you will have in your life. Trust me.
Every single person around you plays a very important part in your life. They have their own importance in your life. Believe it or not, but it is true. When a person is no more a part of your life, your life starts changing. Imagine your world without your parents. Your mother or/and your father leaves you alone one day and they are not coming back. Your mom was very loving. She loved you a lot and you did the same. She always saved you from the anger of your father. Your father, he was strict. He always made restrictions on you. But he loved you. He was the one who taught you walk. Who always made sure you are happy, your demands are fulfilled anyhow. And that's why you loved him. But they are no more the part of your life. Your life won't be the same right? Now there is no one to wake you up in the morning, there is no one who will scold you for doing something wrong. Won't you feel alone? Even if you have your brother, sister, friends, colleagues, everyone around you but they can't take place of your parents right?
Same for other people around you. Think of your friends. They love you a lot and you love them a lot. You meet everyday, hangout with each other every night, you fight a lot but every time you fight, the next day you patch up, and your understanding increases. One day you have a fight over something as usual. You say something what you are not supposed to say. But you didn't mean it. You think you will patch up as usual. But it doesn't happen. Your friends never come back to you. Now think of your life without them. They are no more around you. Alone again, right? Are you going to forget your friends and start making new friends? Will they be able to take place of your old pals? I guess not. You will always miss your old friends, always regret your words. You wish you never said that, but what now!
Think of your younger sister. She is so cute but you find her the ugliest. If you are a girl, you are jealous of her. If you are a boy, you always hate her. Think of your elder brother. He is just like your father. Always tries to put restrictions on you. When your father is not at home, he tries to fill in his shoes and starts behaving like your father. You hate him right? But one day your sister/brother leaves you. They are no longer around you. Now every time you think of your sister or brother, you realize you were wrong. They were not the one to hate so much. But what now. They are no longer around you. You are alone. There is no sister who will make you jealous, no brother who was always like you father, strict but loving. Now you are alone.
Remember that man sweeping streets everyday? Each time you looked at him, you hate him. If you were a girl, you always found him filthy. If you were a boy, you always thought the guy was ugly. The man looked at you very suspiciously. You never liked him. You thought he deserved what he is doing. You always looked at him with anger and hate in your eyes. One day you look on the street, they guy is not there. Another day passes. He's not there. Days keep passing but he never came back. What you will think? Will you think, 'thank god! They guy is no more here. Now you won't have to see his ugly face every morning.' Well I guess yes, but at the same time, you will feel a black space somewhere. Every time you open your window and look at the street, every time you walk on the street, you will remember that guy. You will think, why the guy is not coming? What happened to him? Is he in some kind of problem? Is he dead! (yes you will think this) Even if you never liked that man, you will think of him. Because he was a part of your routine life. Not an active part but a passive one. Even if he has no importance in your life, he will make you think about him.
When any single person leaves from the routine of your life, your routine changes. You can't expect everything to be the same forever right? You can't expect someone to be with you forever. Time changes, people changes. The world around you changes. People come and go. It's the routine. It's he part of life we live. Then why we don't like when someone leaves us? Why we always wish no one leave us. Why we wish our parents are always around us, our brother, sister, friends are always with us? Why we start caring about someone who never played an important part in our life? Why we start loving someone whom we hated for life after he is no longer there? Because, we never want to be alone. We don't like changes. When you are all alone, with no one around you, you are most likely to think about the good times. The time you spent with your parents, friends, colleagues, classmates everyone.
We don't like being alone anywhere, yes anywhere. You always think someone is with you. So you can spend good times together. We are having a good time or a bad time, we want someone to be part of it. Because sharing good time with someone increases the happiness and sharing bad time with someone decreases sadness.
Always remember, if you never want to be alone, then don't leave someone else alone.Always make them feel like that you are always there around them. Never leave someone when they need you the most. You know that or not, but you may be playing an important role in someone's life. Never let them down. Love the people around you as you love yourself. Behave with people the way you want them to behave with you. Life will never be the same. If you want life to be the same in best possible way, you need someone around you. You can't get over your problems alone. Share happiness with everyone. Be part of someone's problem. You will always need them.
At last, why am I writing this post? Well, I just remembered my past, the people came and gone in my life, who made my life as it is at the moment - my friends, with whom I am never so open, my parents whom I never listen, and many other people who were around me, were part of my life, active or passive, but they changed me a lot, my teachers, whom I always hated for not teaching me the way the should etc. At some stages of my life, I have been alone and there is so much to write, but I think it's enough written already. This post is dedicated to everyone who have been part of my life, in present, or in past. Thank you all.
If you think this post has any impact on you, your life, leave a comment. Share your similar experience. Everyone likes encouragements, including me. Please do so.
Being alone is the worst feeling you will have in your life. Trust me.
